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Ice Breakers

VIDEO ICE BREAKERS

  • New Folk?

    The DNA of FCC has always been our heart for people. Our worship is towards Christ. Our mission is His mission – which is people. So when it comes to caring for, and shepherding people, we strongly desire people to feel as though they have found their home & their place in creation. Here in community, they can, together with other believers, learn how to do life God’s way: living for God’s Glory and sharing in a larger purpose that is everlasting. We value greatly people getting connected into this.

  • Just walk across the room

    When it comes to making people feel welcome and at home, whether at church or at a homegroup, getting your friends and your group to help makes all the difference.

    As a shepherd of people, homegroup leaders should regularly encourage the value of intentionally "walking across the room" to engage with new visitors.

    What to say when you do? Next are some helpful angles of conversation.

  • Good conversation is like tennis

    Good conversations is like a game of tennis: hit out some good questions in order to get good returns. When engaging someone with a question, once they answer it, give your own answer to the same question so that the person can get to know you as well. This can often encourage them to ask you questions – once that is happening then you are winning!

    Here are some good “return” questions to keep at the back of your mind:
    – How did you come to find or hear about the church?
    – What area are you staying in?
    – Have you got family in the area?
    – Have you been involved with a home group before?
    – What work are you involved with? Where are they based?
    – Have you met any any folk at church at all?
    – What are your impressions of FCC?
    – Do you do any outdoor activity?
    – Are you going away at all? With who? Have you been there before? (If its near holiday periods.)

  • Feel easy statements & compliments

    Here are some feel easy statements and compliments that can help people feel welcome and at home:
    Compliment someone on what they are wearing – shoes, glasses, jeans etc. Compliments go a long way.
    – "Hey 'name', come on in. Great to see you again. Can I get you some tea or coffee?"
    – "Hi 'name', great to see you. Please make yourself at home, help yourself to some tea, coffee & eats"
    – To talk about someone new in an enlightening and almost complimentary way to any members of the group appeals to their ego/feel good side. NB, this info you share about them must be done in their presence. But it does encourage them to engage with others about themselves.
    – Remember to engage the group in bouncing off each other, meaning that if someone new shares with you a hobby that another member also does, get that member to engage in the conversation. This can also help alleviate you to attend to other people while the other member takes over from you.

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